Quote of the Day
If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.
When To Be A Gentleman and When Not To.
I bet you’re wondering… huh?
Why this topic? Well, it’s quite simple.
The other day one of my friends brought to my attention that I possess the ability to know when to be a gentleman and when to turn it absolutely off. I had to ponder for a moment, non in the literal sense of what he said, but whether it was a good thing or not.
I came to realize that this was indeed a very good thing..and you ask, “Why?”
Take a minute to step under my suspenders and ponder yourself.
When should YOU be a true gentleman in today’s society – everyday, every other day, never? Always such a tough question. I’ll try to make this as brief as possible, but that’d require me to be very blunt, so please excuse the following haha.
It is quite easier to get in between a woman’s legs than it is to get in between her ears in today’s society. Women will allow you penetrate their sexual emotions faster than you can their intellect out of fear. There are specific reason for that, but I’ll detail that at a later time.
Why should allow yourself to be a gentleman when it’s so easy to bypass intimacy? Think about it for a second.
I could LITERALLY stick my thumb out and garner sexual attention faster than I could trying to “get to know” a lady. Once again, it’s not all the ladies’ fault at all, but they are in contribution to the problem.
Should you allow yourself to be a gentleman when most females continually write good males off as “too good to be true”? It is largely believed that men are getting progressively worse, but in the words of Malcolm X – “society can best be gauged by the condition of women in that society”. I personally, believe in his sentiments because after all, women are the teachers of curent and future generations. Remember when I wrote about “The Under-appreciated Gentleman,” this is just a continuance of it. Chivalry is respected and recognized, but not readily available to every individual woman.
You see, you must take it on a case-by-case basis or you’ll quickly burn out of chivalrous gestures to women who’d rather take it physically. Women say they love gentleman, but are not properly equipped to receive one. Why? It is because the lack of intimacy has given up and coming men a pass to learn the patience and respect of women.
It comes full circle, but as you see, giving in one hand (literally) and taking in another.
With the lack of intimacy, there becomes a lack of gentlemen. It’s increasingly getting worse and for the gentlemen of today, you must learn how to accustom your methods to this.
Women, take your power to hone patience and run with it, please. Don’t allow us to question becoming a gentleman, force it.
..Until we meet again
- That Gentleman.
..tick tick, goes the clock
“Give me odorous at sunrise a garden of beautiful flowers where I can walk undisturbed.”
Life isn’t truly meant to be understood and never it will be completely understood, but that’s the beauty of it. Everyone has their own interpretation of life and can make of it what they want. Some turn the borderline insanity into a perception of individual growth, while others, they just happen to go through the motions. Another day, another sunrise, waiting on the what stress is going to come into your life on this day.
At times, you may feel as though the weight of the world is on YOUR shoulders. Understandably so, you feel as though you are making no progress and life, it’s just conspiring against you. It’s quite the disheartening feeling, but as we come to learn in life, it has its high’s and low’s. If we were to all be completely happy, wouldn’t it just a boring everyday ritual? We do have those who attempt to consciously smile 24/7, but sooner or later, it does get old.
Think about it.
So, while time is steadily ticking, you live without a care in the world… You walk by flowers and don’t even think to smell them. I believe there’s a quote that says, “wake up and smell the roses”. Within yourself, think of all the times you may have just glanced at something, happen to become intrigued, but never stopped because you were in a rush. A person opens up the blinds, revealing the sunlight and you react in a tone of utter disgust. The sun rises everyday, but the breaths you take can’t be counted on to feel your lungs the next morning. Leaves you with a feeling of regret, though we are often hear from some that we should live without regrets.
In every single day, the sun rises and the sun sets…somewhere. The vision of it’s beauty can surely be seen, but we seem to take it, as we do most things, for granted.
Are you really getting the most out of life that you possibly could? I must ask the question.
In times, like the ones we live in presently, where things aroud us are times of chaos and madness, it is quite the necessity to understand the magnitude of our society. The living is the present and your mistakes are the past. Enjoy every single wakin moment and never count on the next second to be there.
Find the beauty in your life and preserve the picture of it within the mental, it’s simple.
.. Until we meet again
- That Gentleman
Quote of the Day
Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable.
Cuff Season, the unspoken season.
You see it, but you’re scared to travel down the cold path alone.
An introduction to that time of the month…well, I mean “time of the year”
I bet you’re wondering what “Cuff Season” is, but it’s quite simple. We are currently a couple of weeks into it and the craze that it brings,it is quite hilarious. Give me some time to explain and I’ll have you understanding the comedy as well haha.
You know the time of the year where it gets cold and cuddling begins to increase at a rapid rate? – That’s only the beginning of cuff season.
Hormones are raging and people are wanting someone to call their own for the holidays. I was talking with a couple of my guys and made the statement, “people sure do go crazy over Christmas presents”. So what are YOU getting that loved one for the holidays? See, funny stuff.
It’s quite understood that people want someone to care about them during the holidays, but if you REALLY just look and think about it, it never fails. Take a seat in a Starbucks or walk around a crowded area, people are talking about wanting to be in a relationship and seeing all THEIR friends in relationships.
If you don’t catch yourself, you’ll get caught up in it too, but there’s always a time and place for everything. Don’t do it, RECONSIDER. Cuff Season does indeed have an ending period, where the spring/summer creeps up and people are going haywire just to get out and party again. The chains and leashes tend to loosen and fall off. People just have a tendency to want to have their options open, allowing them to be “single and ready to mingle”. Think about it for a second.
Cuff season goes along the same lines as the flu, it’s airborne(word of mouth) and it’s contagious. Personally, I’ve heard the “I want a boyfriend” statement so many times already and we haven’t gotten completely into the winter months yet. Everytime, I can only just give a brief sigh and continue to stay out the Black Friday-like chaos.
I’ve chosen to not even touch Cuff Season this year because all together, it’s one BIG headache. If you did indeed get a loved one this Cuff Season, I tip my hat to you because it could’ve been a relationship in the works. If you got a loved this season because you saw others doing it and felt alone, shame on you, REALLY. As the ice melts away and the flowers begin to bloom, the egos of those who were in relationships/flings seem to get a great boost and they feel rejuvenated for the upcoming months. Cuff Season does not offer immunity shots or any remedies except for sad love songs and quick pick-me-up’s. While people are rushing to get their holiday plans in gear and purchase gifts, others are scheming on how they’ll attract someone for the holidays. Two sides of the spectrum that seem to collide at an intersection of sorts.
Women take it a bit more serious than others and become completely upset about it, but I understand, trust me. It’s just something that’s natural and more often than not, unnoticed. Continue on with your normally scheduled companionship rituals, just remember that it’s Cuff Season and it DOES have an end to it.
I know, I know, you knew about it all along..but I did say it was unspoken, right?
.. Until we meet again
- That Gentleman
Venting from the outside… 100K
Sup ya’ll. Its ya boy 100K. Corey asked me to give a few thoughts on my dealings with women I meet and the mindset I approach women with. Here goes:
Well off top, I’m 23 and single. I love being single. Its only of my favorite things in the world besides music and playing Scrabble. I kid, I kid. But really, its more of a time for me to experience myself and what makes me tick. With that said, I’ll talk about my some of my personal experiences with women I’ve dated. I aint gonna be single forever so you might as well enjoy it while it lasts…
The last few women I’ve dated…the individual experiences ranged from challenging (which I respected) to downright annoying. I’ve dealt with a lot of BS in my seven years of dating: women with boyfriends wanting me, women with previous STD infections (I take sexual health extremely serious. I’m clean BTW.), past issues, you name it. I’m not gonna put ALL my business out there, but these situations were taken as growth opportunities. Here’s how I get down.
1. I look at what a woman brings to the table besides looks-in terms of assets/liabilities. Is she in school or working? Is she an alpha female? What do you enjoy about her? It may sound harsh but I’ve had to put women in the friendzone or just cut them off completely because I knew nothing good would come out of dealing with them. And when I cut a loss, I cut a loss. No Facebook, Twitter, phone calls, nothing. I’m not perfect and I have flaws, but there’s just something I don’t even bother with (ie mind games, girls already in relationships, hoes trying to be good girls, etc)
2. Treat women as individual cases. Everyone aint the same and it is unfair to categorize. That person’s issues are relative to them. And you know what they say: if you keep attracting the same type, it’s something about you. The women you date are a reflection of you, and I’ve learned that its better to stand alone with a good rep than to be with someone sharing a bad one. There was a time when I was just meeting all types of women with fucked up issues, so I fell back and redeveloped my game plan. Now, the caliber of women I usually meet are better because I’m better. I’ll go as far as to say that women feel off of your male leadership skills so get yourself right, then holla.
3. Don’t be scared to speak your piece, You should be tactful while doing this. You don’t want to be this bulldozing asshole and, ultimately, it is a female’s RIGHT to choose to be with you. But a lot of guys salt themselves out of a potential situation with a female because they don’t express their intentions upfront. If you like her, fuck it. Go for it.
4. Get a solid platonic female friend. A platonic female friend is good because they can usually tell you about the girl(s) you date and you can pick their brains about how to relate to females. You aint gonna sleep with every female you meet. I hope I’m not the first person who’s told you that either.
5. HONESTY. A female must respect you for you to even have a semblance of a functional relationship. For her to respect you, you must show that you’re worthy of it. If you don’t want a relationship, let it be known. If you wanna take it slow, same thing. A lie only has so long till it gets exposed. If you have to lie to a female for some ass, its a deficiency in YOUR game.
6. Last but not least, loyalty. If you’re single, play the game responsibly. Be honest and all. But if you’re in a committed relationship, hang up your jersey. Its not fair to her to have to deal with infidelity on your end. If that’s the case, at least have the decency to break up and then do whatever you want. I value loyalty and honestly above anything else.
It may not be what your momma told you about females, but if you’re gonna do something, might as well do it right. Its been a blast ya’ll.
Shoutouts to Corey for giving me chance to share my thoughts.
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.. Crossing over the thin line
There’s this thin line between love and hate, the border between insanity and sanity, which leads me to believe that there’s truly NO in between.
In this mild rant(organized chaos), I’m going to speak on a lot if issues and try to connect them all under one broad theme, “the thin line”.
Before I dive into this broad subject-matter, do not be offended if it does not pertain to you.
Women, can’t live with them, can’t live without them, which is unfortunately the reality of the situation. Men, well we’re stuck attempting to find the balance between that insanity and insanity, puzzled as to how to deal with it.
Every individual is made differently, but there are certain instances where we do fall into generalities. Often, we find that we get disturbed by individual flaws(granted, it’s how you perceive them). A large majority of our generation seems to not embrace that individuality, which makes us stand out. I’ll allow myself, for this instance, to speak on the matter of women not embracing it.
I’ve been quite puzzled as to why ladies are so concerned with others that they forget who they are. There’s a thin line between wanting to appreciate others and loving yourself. We, as people, cannot expect others to fulfill the love that we SHOULD have for the person we see in the mirror. The increasing insecurity theme with women is in large part due to the sex crazed generation we have now. I understand the faults of a lot of males these days in their lost touch with the idea that is chivalry.
Brief statement – Jealousy is not love.
Jealousy will not earn you anymore respect than insecurity will.
Back to what I was saying…
Many men and women are now judged by appearance, in some cases, rightfully so. By that judgement, those who do indeed judge, we are already moving entirely too quick. The idea of getting to know a person before you make a commitment has become close to extinct. Please excuse me for interjecting my own own experiences as I speak to you.
I’ve talked with ladies who felt as though me “getting to know them” was far too slow, so to speak. I had to ask myself whether it was right for me to even slow things down in the first place. After long thought, it was in my better judgement to do so. It seems as though today relationships just move extremely too quickly from the beginning, which leads to quicker failure. I really would love see everyone’s point as to why there should be a balance of speed, but if you happened to read my blog before, you’d notice that I firmly believe that there is a severe lack of communication. My instincts tell me to not speak with females in the sense that I’m attempting tto become their lifetime companion, but that’s just my instinct.. at the moment.
Reality does teach many lessons, day to day, and we must take from the knowledge of those days past. Understanding the problems that we face today are not as complicated as most would think, they just are not being approached correctly. So, for me to consistently come upon women who are in themselves insecure, just seems like a daily routine. Personally, I believe that insecurity is far too vast and far too unattractive. Men are quite a bit more simple. We do have emotions, yet we often hide them behind our egos. The physical requirement in a relationship seems to overshadow the feelings that we actually have. Just being frank, it’s become too easy to gain that physical touch as compared to gaining entrance to the emotions of a love/friendship interest.
I’ll leave it at that, for now
..Until we meet again
- That Gentleman
Busy, Busy, Busy
Sometimes in life, you just get extremely bogged down. In the sense that every plan that you set, gets overshadowed by an array of situations that just “pop up”. It is definitely not enough time in the day to accomplish everything you would like to, but I’d really like to send a big “Thank You” to daylight savings’ time. The day just grows longer with less light haha. We’ve been away for a while because so many things just happen and honestly, I wish I could spend more time sharing our thoughts with you.
For now, I’ll just appreciate the time that is given and continue to strive for the best. People, don’t let yourself get so tied down that you forget to have fun in life, take some time and just relax for a change.
… Until we meet again
- That Gentleman
..New Flava in ya Ear
Louchiano
The track is one of many to come but basically I felt as if just being another artist raping over a instrumental wasn’t something that would work in my favor or be something that people would be excited to hear or even want to listen to. So I decided that would I put my on personal twist on songs and mix them with other songs to make some original. Hopefully by blending instrumentals with my lyrics it will help build up a buzz so I can drop my next album entitled
“The Promise“.
Eyeris
…A lil something for the naysayers
Nucci Reyo
Good and Bad – Nucci Reyo (produced by Casa One)
.. giving the people the best of both worlds
Rob Jay
I’ve been doing my thing on the underground scene, recently I was featured on The Arize Magazine’s Fresh Picks Mixtape with Shawn Chrystopher and U-N-I.
… there will be more coming from ALL of these artists including updates and new interviews – Stay tuned!
Quote of the Day
Better a little which is well done, than a great deal imperfectly. – Plato
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